sensual

Ever tried something new and safe even once to experience what its like? Our whole lives are like that in that we test new ideas or experiences and in this way stretch and grow as human beings. Or we can be real safe and not even leave the house or get out of bed for that matter. So, what's your game plan? - V

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Happy Valentine's Day, guys! I hope you are enjoying this special day with you partner, whether same sex or opposite, or you're spending the day doing something awesome with friends or family members you love and appreciate.

So with your partner, both of you nude (it kind of works better this way), why not spend a bit of time exploring each other by touch alone. Feel each other's breath as they inhale and exhale, feel each other's heart beat and explore every surface, nook and cranny with your eyes closed. It can lead to other things but for the moment the focus is touch. What are you learning about your partner and about yourself?

And if you are without a partner, just give someone a deep, loving embrace, whether a friend or a family member and tell them how much you love them and what they mean to you. You can leave your clothes on for this one! Don't wait until its too late to tell them that you love them. Just set aside your fears and hesitations and say it!!! And to the special someone in my life, Brad, Happy Valentine's Day!!!! I wish we were together right now but however you are spending your day, have an awesome one.... and give your mother a great hug!!! - V.

Behaviour

Matt over at dtb (Debriefing the Boys) posted this video clip recently. Some are challenged by certain types of behaviour because it causes them unease (challenges their compfort zone) but why should the establishment decide upon what is acceptable when it hurts no one, least of all those participating in the activity. This video says more about those that are offended than it does about the two guys who certainly have no problem with it. Have a look at this clip from "The Principal's Office" and decide for yourself.